question posted to me:

why should i pretend to be someone else when im not?

my answer:

just to impress people, to show that i can do things on my own without anyone's help.

the thing is, there is no use pretending to be someone else when you are not. it only causes hurt to urself, and people around you. when you pretend to be someone else, people will not be able to see the real you, your true colours, the way you act. people wont be able to understand you. and when you start to show ur true self; your true colours, it is, a matter of fact that people will hate you for who you are. they will say things like, i thought you were this type of fella, but it turned out to be different. so in the end, you feel hurt, empty inside. by doing something stupid to what has happen also wont solve this. it only hurts yourself. hurting yourself wont benefit you. instead, it leaves a scar, so hard to erase, and you will be stuck with that memory. why then, do people want to imprison themselves in such a state? by doing that, you can change nothing. the only thing to do is, sit down, talk it all out, once happy, its settled. and wads all this point of fighting over silly things. just shows that, you both aren't friends. it just proves that. wad your benefit from fighting? all you get is a loss. why? u lose a friend. its your lost, not you gain. so wad if, u have a few left? and at a verge of losing a friend which u really dont wanna lose. will you then, from there on, learn your mistakes, then say to yourself, oh shit, i shldnt have done this in the past. or maybe, just sit there and blame everyone for it, when it was your wrong and you know it? maybe it wasnt you who started it, but think again. if you fight, means, there is something wrong with both of you. if one is unhappy with the another about certain issues, there is always an option of sitting together, talk it out. but why people dont want to do it? why does everyone just ignore this option? it was always there, waiting for someone to use it. suffering at the end of the year is a bad thing. maybe u can say, a new year, a new start. then wad about all those beautiful things you are gonna leave behind. throw it all away like that? if u are gonna do that, then wad kind of person are you? think about it. im done here...